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Amba Gale's avatar

"Love outlasts all quarrels."

Thank you for this poem, Mark. It's "spot on" for a particularly relevant relationship in my life right now. It's so integrative. Expanding out, it brings me into a large sense of patience in the relationship, of giving the other time and space, and brings me to a sense of peace and calm. A sense of allowing the other person to be exactly who they are and who they are not, and being perfectly all right with that, and allowing myself to be exactly who I am and who I am not, and being all right with that, as well.

Rose Jah's avatar

What if we can?

What if we offer something soft every day in how we speak, how we forgive, how we choose to understand instead of defend?

Maybe softness isn’t something we leave behind at the end.

Maybe it’s something we trace into our relationships slowly until hardness becomes tenderness.

Your question about relationships growing from hardness into softness feels like that living imprint.

Perhaps this is the quiet dignity of tending human relationships: shaping them, mending them, beautifying them - so that light remains for one another.

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